Choices

Choices – Part 5

I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; Deuteronomy 30:19 NKJV Successful people do consistently what other people do occasionally. Our habits will make us or break us. We become what we repeatedly do. – Sean Covey 3 Daniel soon proved himself more capable than all the other administrators and high officers. Because of Daniel’s great ability, the king made plans to place him over the entire empire. 4 Then the other administrators and high officers began searching for some fault in the way Daniel was handling government affairs, but they couldn’t find anything to criticize or condemn. He was faithful, always responsible, and completely trustworthy. Daniel 6:3-4 NLT But when Daniel learned that the law had been signed, he went home and knelt down as usual in his upstairs room, with its windows open toward Jerusalem. He prayed three times a day, just as he had always done, giving thanks to his God. Daniel 6:10 NLT Daniel developed an attitude of habit. We should never underestimate how God can do something big through one small habit. Based on who you want to become, what one habit do you need to start? What systems do you currently have in place. How to create a habit The process = Trigger > Action > Reward Make it obvious Make it easy Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress. We are not successful when we hit our goals somewhere in the future. We are successful when we’ve honoured God today. Some of us have created bad habits in our lives. So how do we break a habit so that we become who we want to be? We rarely end at the wrong place because of one decision. So get rid of every filthy habit and all wicked conduct. Submit to God and accept the word that he plants in your hearts, which is able to save you. James 1:21 GNB How do we break a habit Acknowledge it You cannot defeat what you have not defined Remove the trigger (make it difficult to do) 14 Do not set foot on the path of the wicked or walk in the way of evildoers. 15 Avoid it, do not travel on it; turn from it and go on your way. Proverbs 4:14-15 NIV Triggers Place Time Mood Moment People Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm Proverbs 13:20 NIV The most important people in your life should be people that challenge you to grow and advance Interrupt the action The habits you build today will shape who you are tomorrow. Do you like who you are becoming?

Choices – Part 3 

I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; Deuteronomy 30:19 Making God honouring choices What does it mean to honour? It means placing a weight on something. Making it a premium. God desires that we all make decisions that honour Him and bring Him glory. And He waits for us to come to Him and ask Him for His wisdom. 4 Steps to making God honouring choices 2. Seek Godly counsel Wise counsel helps us navigate options, make decisions, take actions, and respond well in situations and relationships. Thankfully, God offers wise counsel through multiple means. The bible calls us to seek godly counsel. Nobody has monopoly on wisdom Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counsellors there is safety. Proverbs 11:14 A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; He rages against all wise judgment. 2 A fool has no delight in understanding, But in expressing his own heart. Proverbs 18:1-2 Sources of Godly counsel Family and those around you People in Church that have wisdom in that area Pastors and spiritual leaders The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, But he who heeds counsel is wise. Proverbs 12:15 Wisdom = listening more carefully when people in these spheres disagree with us 3. Do what you want What do you want to do? Isn’t it amazing that we get to ask this question? What do you want to do? What desires has God given you? What makes you happy? What brings you joy? What excites you? God will be with you every step of the way. You’ll be doing God’s will. In fact, you will have found God’s will. “For you shall go out with joy, And be led out with peace; The mountains and the hills Shall break forth into singing before you, And all the trees of the field shall clap their hands. Isaiah 55:12 Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart. Every Godly decision requires faith. Psalm 37:4 4. Build your faith If you make decision without God’s input, it means we’re putting faith in ourselves. We can pursue wisdom and God may still lead us to the cross. A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps. Proverbs 16:9 30 There is no wisdom or understanding or counsel against the Lord. 31 The horse is prepared for the day of battle, But deliverance is of the Lord. Proverbs 21:30-31

Choices – Part 2

We need to ensure that God is central in our lives and integrate Him into all the parts of our lives. From the initial decision to become a believer, to a desire for a holy life, and including the big and small decisions of daily life, the Holy Spirit can be depended upon for guidance in our choices. I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; Deuteronomy 30:19 You have two options everyday, life or death – choose life because that is good. Surely if given the option of life and blessings or death and curses, we would naturally and enthusiastically choose life! But the command: “Choose life” is more than a decision to keep on breathing How do we make God honouring choices? God lavishes grace and mercy on us in overwhelming, heaping amounts, and he does so freely for His children. We are going to have to make decisions in life. There’s just no getting around that. The problem with making God honouring choices is that we are spoilt for choice. The choice that we make today will affect what we walk in tomorrow.  What are the roadblocks to making God honouring decisions We get paralyzed because we think there’s a “Godliest” option We get paralyzed because we put too much pressure on ourselves We get paralyzed because were waiting for a sign from God Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 4 steps to making God honouring choices Believe God’s Word You cannot believe in God unless you trust what He says The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, But fools despise wisdom and instruction. Proverbs 1:7 3 threads of God’s Word God’s gospel: Jesus has secured all the benefits and blessings of God, not you. The things that are most true about you can never be taken away regardless of the decisions you make.  God’s sovereignty: He works all things according to the counsel of His will. In this new freedom, God is still sovereign over our wills. God’s mission Ask yourself if the decision you are about to make is going to make you fulfil the great commission.

Choices – Part 1

Our lives are the sum total of our choices. We have all created our present situation by the choices we made in the past. If we chose to do nothing, then our situation reflects that. Recognizing that we live in a world of our own creation means that we are responsible. If we don’t like our life the way it is, then we are the ones responsible for making changes. I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; Deuteronomy 30:19 We are not only saved by faith, we are called to a lifestyle of faith. A lifestyle of faith is a lifestyle of obedience. Faith in God is a choice, not a feeling. It is a decision to rely on God based on what he has revealed about himself through nature and in the Bible. Not an affection that fluctuates according to what we might infer about him from our momentary blessings or persistent adversities. If you are willing and obedient, You shall eat the good of the land; Isaiah 1:19 There is much power in our obedience to God. If God did not delight in obedience, the glory of sovereign grace might never be seen in its sin-conquering power. 38 Now it happened as they went that He entered a certain village; and a certain woman named Martha welcomed Him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who also sat at Jesus’ feet and heard His word. 40 But Martha was distracted with much serving, and she approached Him and said, “Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Therefore tell her to help me.” 41 And Jesus answered and said to her, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and troubled about many things. 42 But one thing is needed, and Mary has chosen that good part, which will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:38-42 We must decrease the distractions that keep us from the main thing. Good stewardship looks like fighting distraction as best you can. Push yourself. You may not be able to do what others can do, but God will only hold you accountable for the measure of grace given to you. 15 So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools, but like those who are wise. 16 Make the most of every opportunity in these evil days. 17 Don’t act thoughtlessly, but understand what the Lord wants you to do. Ephesians 5:15-17 Not every good idea is a God idea. Go from saying “no” to many good things to saying “yes” to God (Best) things. Saying yes to God things means: Intimacy with God  Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. Matthew 6:33 Intentional time of rest  “Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life 29Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you Matthew 11:28-29 A life dedicated to God  I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service. Romans 12:1 He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it. Matthew 10:39